LIFE is beautiful, precious and bestowed only once. It has three stages: childhood, adulthood and old age. Each stage is both amazing and challenging, with inevitable elements like poverty, success, failure, animosity and friendship. Life isn’t lived in isolation; it thrives within communities. Small efforts and consistency bring big achievements. Embracing differences and learning to agree to disagree are key elements of life.
Life is the distance between birth and death, requiring confidence, self-discipline and time management. Accepting challenges and turning them into opportunities make life remarkable. Dwelling on the past hinders progress; letting go of past pains clears the way for a bright future. Virginia Woolf said, “When pain is over, the remembrance of it often becomes a pleasure.” The future is where happiness lies and present actions shape it. Dreams alone don’t work—only action brings results. Keep your dreams alive and focus on your own perspective, not on others’ opinions.
Take full responsibility for your life and stop blaming others. Be your own best friend—celebrate small victories and be grateful for those who contribute to your success. Surround yourself with positive, wise people who inspire you to grow. Avoid toxic relationships, pessimism and sycophants. Invest in meaningful friendships and avoid excessive gossip. Time with family is invaluable—prioritize them over purposeless interactions.
Time is your most valuable asset. Don’t procrastinate—wasting time has a cost. Improve your knowledge, skills and communication. Life is not about being anonymous; introduce yourself and make people know your value. Go where you’re appreciated and speak where your words matter. Don’t let anyone undermine your worth.
Use social media wisely—it can be a double-edged sword. Life is short, so enlarge it by contributing to humanity, writing or authouring books. Aim to leave a legacy. Life requires balance; appreciate both science and religion, but don’t let one dominate the other. Take calculated risks and don’t fear failure—remember, “The secret of life is to fall seven times and get up eight times,” as Paulo Coelho said.
Become financially independent and self-reliant. Aim to be the boss rather than an employee. Marriage brings peace and comfort—mutual understanding, compromise, tolerance and forgiveness are the keys to a successful relationship. Raising children teaches responsibility, but ensure the population remains educated and moderate.
Life holds great expectations. Be kind to neighbours, love children, respect elders and honour women. Support minorities and assist those with disabilities. Protect the environment—say no to deforestation, hunting and pollution. Prioritize your health: exercise, eat nutritious food, drink clean water and sleep well. Invest in your appearance and self-care.
Beware of political, religious and economic extremists. Support democracy and justice, but always maintain politeness. Never compromise your character; losing it means losing everything. Think clearly, but don’t overthink—act decisively and avoid comparisons. Define your own version of success and pursue it without trying to please everyone. Life is beautiful; enjoy it to its fullest.
The writer is Lecturer at Government Boys Degree College, Pishin.
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